After all, being the primary focus of this woman’s affection is an accomplishment in itself.
If she has deemed you the object of her attention, affection and focus, you must have a few tricks up your sleeve.
Get used to hearing the phrase, “Wait, what was I talking about?
Don’t be offended if you’re talking about something serious and suddenly they get distracted by whatever is happening right over your shoulder. Learn to appreciate the beauty of half-finished projects.
Your girlfriend may compulsively flip through channels on television or change the song on the radio, but her discontent with other things does not apply to your relationship.
In college, my best friend and I had a something we referred to as “closet mountain.”Closet mountain quickly became an inside joke amongst our friends and eventually evolved into a place where people would check in on Facebook. Essentially, it was a pile of clothes, which ranged in cleanliness and had accumulated throughout many sessions of getting ready.
Some women follow recipes, maintain immaculate closets and make important entries in their diaries, which they write in regularly. I am a part of the 4-6 percent of the US population who has attention deficit disorder.
Being plagued with distractions is something I have accepted.
Although you may be the center of her universe, she is well aware the rest of the world is still spinning, and she doesn’t intend to miss out on any of it.
Numerous women with ADD have their own pile of clothes, from the endless crusade of getting dressed.
Whether or not the pile of clothes doubles as a tourist attraction depends on the particular female.
Give them time to process things in their own way on their own terms (this is true for everyone, but ADD people often need to think/feel things in very specific ways).
Help keep them on track by not asking too many questions.