Who is to say that if you were to divorce and then later remarry the same thing would not happen again?If it is you that is the problem, then there are no guarantees.Perhaps you need to take a good long look at yourself and then have a serious heart to heart conversation with your wife about your marriage and why she would feel the need to have this friendship.
I am having a harder time dealing with this than I thought I was going to. I don’t know the whole story and I am not judging you, but I can see very clearly what is going on. Unless you have really ill feelings toward her, why wouldn’t you want her to be happy in her relationship?
That means the bond we share is our protection from sin and vice, implying not only a physical refuge (i.e.
through lawful sexual relations) but also an emotional and psychological refuge.
After years of infidelity on my part; I asked for a separation.
I thought since I was the one that asked for this I would be able to walk away without feeling any hurt.