They enjoy a superior quality of life, are some of the most enthusiastic travelers, and perhaps the most physically active men in the world.
The tax department will have your number, real fast.And that’s fascinating, because you really care about the environment. This is somewhat how the Danes do it themselves, except that there’s a lot of alcohol involved.Basically, Danes go through all the same steps, but they’re very shy, so they do it while drinking a bottle of wine, or sometimes a bottle of vodka.And one from late last year: ”I’m a gay African American male who would like to date a Dane. ’ Basically, a lot of the mail I get is from men, wanting to know how they can get some action in Denmark. I know of several babies of mixed heritage here in Denmark. That’s because the process that works in much of the rest of the Western world doesn’t work in Denmark. But first, let me tell you another thing that will get you rejected.While I can’t offer any personal insights on gay dating in Denmark, I can tell you that male-female dating in Denmark is hard, even for the Danes, and it will probably be hard for you too. In most parts of the world, a man will see a woman he likes, and he’ll approach her. Maybe he’ll ask if he can buy her a coffee, or some other type of drink. I’ll call it Manhattan behavior, because it was the way people dated when I lived in New York City.I’ve seen foreign guys in nightclubs with tight business shirts and shiny business shoes on, and they’re getting nowhere. It’s actually not necessary at all, but if you insist, use a very, very light touch.Do some reconnaissance first, maybe do some shopping. Now, as I promised, back to how to meet women in the first place.I get a lot of mail from readers of my blog, but a lot of the mail I get is on one particular topic.Here’s one from this week, from Teddy in Ghana: ”I want to know if Danish women will date a Ghanaian man. And one from last month, from Alex: ”Hi, I’d like to know if Danish girls would date a bi-racial Brazilian guy”. And I can tell you now, most of them will not immediately reject you because you have a different skin color.Second of all, Denmark is a very non-hierarchical society, very flat structure.I think it’s fair enough to say most women will prefer a man with a steady job, but saying you have a top management position just means that you have to spend a lot of time working and not as much time with your family and friends. So instead, if you want to impress a Danish woman, talk about how your work benefits society at large, particularly how it benefits people who don’t have a lot of resources.