Or worse, she’ll assume you just want to be friends. Women want a man who stands up for what he believes in.
The ultimate goal of pick up is to ‘close the deal’ in whatever shape or form that may be.When you find a girl you want to approach, always assess the situation first.If she looks in a hurry or appears to be emotionably unavailable, respect her space. Practice on your highs and lows and accentuating words like you’re telling a story. Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not to impress a girl.And above all make sure your compliment is non creepy or overtly sexual. Telling a girl you think she’d look sexy in a bikini is a little overboard.Same goes for saying you couldn’t help but notice her tits. Once you can read the cues of interest women subconsciously put out there, you can start to escalate sexually.It’s so simple you can start putting it into action immediately.But first things first, it’s important we cover the core principles of pickup that form the foundation to all of this. If you prefer video learning we recommend this video: (It’s the best way to master pickup in a short space of time) Ok lets get started! Unless you want to get rudely rejected, start with welcoming environments that allow natural conversation to flow – cafes, bars, clubs, house parties, sports events, and shopping centres are all great locations to find women to talk to. If you can pick up girls in bars and clubs there’s no reason you can’t get a girls number whilst ordering a flat white on your morning commute to work.If you can bounce back from your failures, learn from your mistakes and keep practicing, you’ll slowly become desensitized to the fear of rejection and become unstoppable with women.OK, so those are the five core concepts of whats involved. They’re borderline sleazy and a girl will instantly know your intentions.If you appear confident in your approach and be direct with your intentions you’ll have no problem picking up girls. Chatting up girls can be the most nerve racking experiences imaginable. Confidence is largely perceived non verbally, so it’s important you communicate this through your body language and voice tonality. It will only make a girl anxious and wanting to end the conversation. Whether you’re meeting a girl or going in for the kiss, YOU have to be the one pulling the trigger. You must be bold and prepared to put your neck on the line for women.And with this you’ve got to expect to be rejected from time to time. But it’s how you handle rejection that will define your success with picking up women.