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I'm way-y-y-y- over 50, and my problem has been that younger men in their 40's and 50's who can no longer "perform" adequately in a "normal" fashion, respond to my ads thinking that an older woman can be satisfied with oral alone.
Odd tho I always thought it was the over 40 and 50 woman who couldn't keep up with me. I'm 45, and lost my drive during the last several years of my marriage. But have since found that the removal of my piece of crap husband worked miracles for my sex drive. The following is a response I had posted with a similar thread content As I am over 40...I could have gone for a much younger man, and had the chance to, but would not be comfortable with one younger than 40. Most older women who still like sex, fare much better with a younger doctor prescribed a MILD estrogen/progesterone for me (i am in the "best of BOTH worlds) ... i had 'good sex' when i was married (20 yrs) and better sex when i had my long-term b/f....Older men have more of a problem keeping up sexually than older women. i have always been a sensual, must have it kinda gal...In addition, it helps if she has an understanding partner who is willing to give her a little time to adjust to the problems.A lot of the problem can be alleviated with non-medicinal methods. I will tell you that I'm post-menopausal and I have absolutely NO problem with sex.Not wanting to go younger than that, it's taken me awhile to find one (50 ) who can keep up with me.I see no reason why a woman of any age cannot enjoy sex, as long as they are healthy and able.And I'm not INTERESTED in younger men because I appreciate a man who knows what he's doing. if your behaviour and/or relationship is based around sexual behaviour, you really have to re-evaluate what's important to you...no matter who you are, eventually sex does take a back seat to the more important things in life.... Based on my secular position, I see a lot of people laying in hospital beds.I will take the liberty of addressing this age bracket...Andy Rooney (60 minutes)As I grow in age, I value women who are over 40 most of all. A woman over 40 knows herself well enough to be assured in who she is, whatshe is, what she wants and from whom.