You young guys have no idea how fortunate you are to have the resources available to you today. Today I’m going to list the top seven dating tips and mindsets I wish I had known back then. The truth is women are far more sexual creatures than men are. The difference is the amount of rules and regulations women place around sex thanks to Societal Programming. This doesn’t mean you do anything against her will.
If I had known these things back when I was 18 or 22, man, my sex life and relationship life in throughout my 20s would have been completely different. Assuming she’s attracted to you, she wants to fuck you very, very badly, even if she acts like she doesn’t want to and even if she seems to resist sex. The only reason it seems like you are the one who wants it and she does not, is because she’s been trained her entire life to resist her biological urges and to pretend like she doesn’t like sex. It means you stop assuming that you are the one who wants sex more. Women are not going to get mad at you when you open them.
There were some dating books back then, but they were pretty terrible.
Not that I read very many, but the ones I remember taking a look at were dreadfully bad.
While he agreed it was a smart move to skip college and go right to the corporate world, he lamented that I had missed out on the best “pile of tits” I could have ever experienced. One of the guys on my staff was a dude named Chris, who was year or two younger than me. While he was a shitty worker, he was good looking, extroverted, socially competent, and had natural game with women. ” A few nights later he, I, and one of his buddies all went to a dance club downtown. Chris took the hottest one, a blonde who looked like a model. If you’re a young guy just starting out, if you have any natural friends, become their best damn friend and soak up all the knowledge you can from them. If you don’t have a natural friend, do your very best to get one.
As I mentioned above, I didn’t lose my virginity until my early 20s. He had sex with tons of chicks, and while some were ugly, many of them were hot as hell.
I’ve lived a pretty good life and I’ve made a lot of good decisions, even as a younger guy, so I had to think hard about this.
I finally determined that my biggest regret was not taking two years in my early twenties and living abroad, specifically Asia (before marriage, kids, debt, health issues, and other typical older-man responsibilities). Back then I thought, as most of you guys do, that the only “proper” way to have kids was to chop off my balls and hand them over to a woman by signing a legal marriage contract and having a wedding.
The art of seduction is not getting women to do what they don’t want to do. As a younger guy, I always expected that if I walked up to a woman and said hi, or asked a woman out on a date, she would get upset, possibly insult me, and possibly cause a scene. As experienced daygame guys will tell you, 99% of women are extremely polite when you open them or ask them out, and are often flattered even if they aren’t attracted to you.That’s because back in the early 90s when I was in my early 20s, we didn’t have an internet, or PUA, or the manosphere, or any of that stuff.Back then, if you wanted to get laid or get a girlfriend, you had to do it the old fashioned way, which means you had to hope you got a job with some cute female co-workers, or hope you could get a buddy who was a “natural”, and then do your best to clone what he did.Worse, it may actually turn them off if you tell them otherwise. For every woman who doesn’t like you, there’s another right around the corner who will. A super hot girl will reject you in a bar (or bookstore or dating site) and then 30 seconds later the next super hot girl you hit up, who is just as hot and in the exact same location as the first girl, will really like you.I’ve already gone deep into this concept on my free podcasts, so to get the full detail you should listen to those. This happens to me all the time on the online dating sites and to this day it still blows me away.I’ve been talking to a lot of younger guys lately about women and dating.Often I find myself being very jealous of these guys, even when they’re screwing up and making all the usual mistakes.Again, women are horny as hell and crave sex badly.Almost never is the past sexual experience of the man a make-or-break issue for a woman. So I compounded the lie by telling another lie (this is one of the many reasons I don’t lie to women; lies necessitate other lies) and told her that I “hadn’t had sex for a year”.Always remember that when you want to say hi to that cute girl, or ask a girl out, regardless of the outcome she will be sweet about it. They assume that if they tell a woman of their inexperience, she’ll laugh at them and turn down sex for that reason alone.While it’s true there are a small percentage of women who prefer experienced men, the vast majority of women out there, I’d say at least 85%, do not give a about shit how sexually experienced you are.