But when a girl comes across a guy she likes, she’ll let cupid work its magic and see how things goes… He’ll think that he’s in love, that she has the potential to be the ‘love of his life’ even though he doesn’t know ANYTHING about her at all??Sounds crazy I know, but as irrational as it may sound, I’ve done it before myself, and I can pretty much vouch that you and practically 98% of guys has felt the same way too lol! Well, that’s just how we men are wired to be but now that you’re aware of it, it’s absolutely crucial for you to STOP yourself from repeating the same mistake ever again! When you think you’ve met the ‘love of your life’, how will it make you feel? Won’t you do everything in your power to NOT to ‘screw up’ your chances with her, won’t you become more CONSCIOUS of what you’ll be saying, acting and doing in front of her? But can you see how much unnecessary pressure & tension you’re putting yourself in then?She’ll actually treat you like dirt if you display those behaviors. Well, women think that “nice” guys are DESPERATE guys.
You love her, so you decide to give in always in order to prevent making her upset so she will still love you. And of course, since women feel and think differently, it’s a HORRIBLE idea to use your logic with women.It’s impossible that a guy could be MASCULINE and yet submissive. But consider this: One million years ago, life was BRUTAL. There were great challenges- hunting for food, defending against beasts as well as the elements, competing with other men for food and sex. Men don’t have to constantly have nerves of steel, ready for attack at any moment.“If he was sexy, he would never be so nice,” is her overwhelming reaction to your “nice-ness”. But that’s a relatively recent phenomenon in human history.But now I’m just not sure of what I’m supposed to say or do when I’m with her. Thanks GD.” David Says: Thanks for the kind words G.I don’t want to screw this up especially after all the effort I put in on this one. There’s a common joke amongst the players within our community that says that when a first guy meets a girl he likes, he’ll instantly feel as if he’s met a potential wife. Haven’t you noticed that when a guy first meets a girl he likes, he’ll instantly think that she’s ‘the one’. Now, if you go real deep, to the evolutionary levels, there actually IS logic to the way women think, but in today’s society, the way women FEEL attraction is absolutely obsolete and no longer logical at all.But with men, it’s simple though- see hot woman, feel attraction. Her attraction to you is primarily based on your BEHAVIORS.I use “nice” in quotes because “nice” in this sense means SUBMISSIVE.A woman will NOT be grateful AT ALL for those submissive behaviors.Can you see the considerable DIFFERENCES men and women approach in dating? Well, for starters, STOP THINKING THAT EVERY WOMAN YOU MEET MIGHT VERY WELL BE THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE… For me, I’d always be looking for something, anything; her dress sense, her accessories, her handbag, her heels, her actions; whatever it is to bust on her (There’s ALWAYS something you can focus on) and turn the tables implying how SHE’S the one who’s screwing up her chances with me. Still, I could care less what you think of me but I’m comfortable & confident enough to make fun of you so we’ll see where this goes :-)” There are SPECIFIC things you MUST do when you’re in the midst of building attraction with a woman, and for a COMPLETE education & understanding of what these are, I’ve carefully listed and explained EVERYTHING in detail here in the Instant Attraction Program ebooks and audios and I’m finally getting what women want and what they view men now.If she’s local and I’m from out of town, and she wasn’t sure of her directions, I’ll just shake my head and go “this relationship just isn’t going to work out” If she fumbles as she’s pouring herself coffee I’ll shake my head and go “this relationship just isn’t going to work out” Using the “this relationship just isn’t going to work out” has never failed in doing ‘the job’ =) As we’re talking, when she accidentally mispronounces, ‘eats’ or fumbles her sentences (this happens to all of us sometimes), I’ll just shake my head again and just breath a playful sigh… I’m having some success with women at the moment in fact I have this one girl it has come to a point where we connect so emotionally well I could say anything and I’m confident she’ll follow.